Introduction: Part 2 (I know, not the most original title)
So, let's see, when I left off I was in college and now an English major.
That didn't work out for too long, and my idea of getting a certificate in communications wasn't working out so good either. I was losing interest in it. I tend to lose interest in things and move on to something else. Usually I start a project and then fail to finish it, which apparently has been a pattern my whole life. The amazing part, and what I fail to understand, is that I was under the care of a therapist and psychiatrist. I was on an anti-depressant (I can't remember which one I was on exactly, but during the course of my life I have been on all of them from A to Zoloft). I would tell them how I feel and how I was doing. My therapist and psychiatrist knew all my deepest, darkest secrets. I hid nothing from them, i.e. all my doubts about college, what I want to do with my life (which, by the way, is still a mystery to me at age 36 (scary, huh?))
Of course my therapist and I spent more time together then I did with my psychiatrist, but most of my psychiatrists were very nice and liked to talk a little with me (only one psychiatrist I had as an out-patient was a complete a**hole. I think she needed a psychiatrist, I think her pHd probably stood for Pretty Horrible Doctor). So what remains a mystery to me is, could there have been more they could have, or should have, done to help me in achieving anything? That's what I wonder. I know I couldn't do it on my own. At the rate I was going I didn't know where I was going to end up. Living in a hospital being taken care of for the rest of my life? Living at home with my parents and working in a dismal, low paying retail job (no offense to anyone who works in retail, but I have worked in retail and I find it boring and low paying)? Or worse yet, I might just take my own life. I tried not to think about it or worry about it, but I wasn't succeeding in achieving anything I set out to do, I wasn't gaining any ground. This alone should have been a red flag for the mental health professionals that were supposed to be helping me. Well, all I guess I can say is: who knows? Eventually, I had to take matters into my own hands (and I will get into that in more detail later on)(don't worry it's nothing really really bad, it's actually kind of cool).
That didn't work out for too long, and my idea of getting a certificate in communications wasn't working out so good either. I was losing interest in it. I tend to lose interest in things and move on to something else. Usually I start a project and then fail to finish it, which apparently has been a pattern my whole life. The amazing part, and what I fail to understand, is that I was under the care of a therapist and psychiatrist. I was on an anti-depressant (I can't remember which one I was on exactly, but during the course of my life I have been on all of them from A to Zoloft). I would tell them how I feel and how I was doing. My therapist and psychiatrist knew all my deepest, darkest secrets. I hid nothing from them, i.e. all my doubts about college, what I want to do with my life (which, by the way, is still a mystery to me at age 36 (scary, huh?))
Of course my therapist and I spent more time together then I did with my psychiatrist, but most of my psychiatrists were very nice and liked to talk a little with me (only one psychiatrist I had as an out-patient was a complete a**hole. I think she needed a psychiatrist, I think her pHd probably stood for Pretty Horrible Doctor). So what remains a mystery to me is, could there have been more they could have, or should have, done to help me in achieving anything? That's what I wonder. I know I couldn't do it on my own. At the rate I was going I didn't know where I was going to end up. Living in a hospital being taken care of for the rest of my life? Living at home with my parents and working in a dismal, low paying retail job (no offense to anyone who works in retail, but I have worked in retail and I find it boring and low paying)? Or worse yet, I might just take my own life. I tried not to think about it or worry about it, but I wasn't succeeding in achieving anything I set out to do, I wasn't gaining any ground. This alone should have been a red flag for the mental health professionals that were supposed to be helping me. Well, all I guess I can say is: who knows? Eventually, I had to take matters into my own hands (and I will get into that in more detail later on)(don't worry it's nothing really really bad, it's actually kind of cool).
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